That’s the Way Love Goes!

If I could change the way I live my life today, I wouldn't change a single thing, 'cos if I change my world into another place, I wouldn't see your smiling face
-- Lisa Stanfield

Hello Tribe! Happy Imbolc! Happy Lunar New Year! Happy New Moon! As we welcome this month with new beginnings, I wanted to welcome it with all of you! For some of you that don't follow astrology, the new moon symbolizes new beginnings! A perfect time to manifest your heart's desires! It's also the month of Valentine's Day or the Feast of Saint Valentine which originated as a Christian feast honoring Saint Valentine and became a commercial celebration of romance and love all over the world. That being said, with the theme of Love in mind, I wanted to share my journey in healing towards self-love! Yes! The theme of my love letter to all of you is self-love! Though, I am not talking about self-care which is also a form of loving yourself and there is nothing wrong with that. I am referring to self-forgiveness, loving and approving of oneself, staying positive, believing that the universe is conspiring in your favor. Trust, relax and just let it go!

As I welcome this month of new beginnings and manifesting, I wanted to share with you what I have learned in 2021 that I am still applying today when I go deep-diving through negativity and fight the mentality with my Jedi mind tricks, hopefully what I have been doing can also be a resource to anyone who is also in the same healing journey with me.

Stop limiting beliefs and negative self talk: The Universe is always conspiring to support me, guide me and lead me compassionately toward the highest good! My Mantra: "I love and approve of myself" and for this, I will always be grateful to Louise Hay.

Love Language: Learning the love language of people that I love and care about. What I realize is this: I show the way I love to the people that mean the world to me the way I know how but most of the time their love language is way different than mine. The intention is good but knowing their love language allows me to meet their needs and it also lessens miscommunication issues.

Healthy Boundaries: As I said before, establishing healthy boundaries helps for mental, spiritual, physical and emotional health. Protect your sense of self but be flexible that kindness, compassion and love can still get through.

Gratitude: Give thanks to the Creator for such breathtaking beauty, as we see our darkest hours in love and light which leads us to a pathway of hope.

Trust: Trust the timing of your life! Trust the universe that you can do less but still can attract more.

Self-Care: As I said earlier, there is nothing wrong with this. I practice this all the time but what I realize is self-care without self-love doesn't work in the journey of healing.

As I write this, I have nothing but love for all of you! Let's all start this year with nothing but LOVE because in the end, we are LOVE itself.

Rockstar, you know how much I love you right?

In Love & In Light,